They didn't and like. We get money for housing so. Whether you live on or off base. You use that to pay for your rent and so there's health care. That and like the service member gets uniform allowance every year let. Me know what guys down below. You can think of any other things. That I'm missing someone asked. If Devin reenlists. Where would.
You guys choose to be your next choice of living so. We had a choice. I would love to move which I've said. This before. I would love to him about West. Both would we would love to move to like Colorado or Utah or really anywhere sleeeeep. If the military told. Us we were going somewhere. I really wouldn't care. It is as long as. When Devin and I could be together and we could take Sherman. I really wouldn't mind but if. We had a choice. That was that is where. I would struggle. Because like. I would hate to have. That responsibility here is my dog oh boy here comes okay so um yeah. Me but we would love to move out west or move back to wright-patt which is in ohio which is really close to our family. This is my life.
I really don't understand okay speaking of pets. Someone asked. How easy is it to have pets and military housing kind of nervous about the pet policy dude. I don't really understand every time. He literally like what's this it right here and I don't get. It like I said every base is different but for the last two bases. That we've been at they have a two pet maximum rule and I know a lot of people like go against. That and they'll have like extra cats and stuff like. Where housing wouldn't notice but yeah they're and they usually have breed restrictions. I have heard of bases. That don't have breed restrictions but I know a lot of them do so like pit bulls or like.
What they term as vicious breeds. You know oh and our base has a pet deposit and I'm pretty sure every base has. That but I'm not sure so. We had to pay $200 for sherman's pet deposit which is probably not going to get given back to us. Because he has damaged a few things but oh my friend Demi asked are. You involved in anything on base key spouse question mark no. I am NOT and I really have no interest in being involved in anything I don't know yeah. I don't really have an interest in that someone asked. How did I learn to deal with the military comes first mentality so. You don't really understand sorry. I gosh my hair um.
You don't really understand. What that means it's kind of like. Whenever your service member is in the military like the military always comes first. They don't care about anything else like they're still gonna deploy. You they're still gonna work. You crazy hours like. Whatever it just is what it is um and I'm not the kind of person to like dwell on things or like okay sometimes. I do but like. Most like things. That happen in my life. I accept it really quickly and I just like I'm like okay that's it this is what it is and I get over. It so like lately my husband his job has been really difficult on our relationship and I've talked about that before I'm like we're doing great and everything like. That but it's just like it's been hard.
Because he's been working a ton and he's on night shift and stuff like. That and so. It does make your relationship harder but you just have to put. More effort in and enjoy the time. That you do have together and make the most out of the time. That you can spend together we've been really focusing on spending more quality time we've been reading the five love languages military edition. I read the first. One on my own and then. We were gifted a military version. I really recommend. It it focuses on the particular struggles with people. That are in military relationships and it's really good we've liked learned a lot and we're kind of like in the fifth chapter.
You guys choose to be your next choice of living so. We had a choice. I would love to move which I've said. This before. I would love to him about West. Both would we would love to move to like Colorado or Utah or really anywhere sleeeeep. If the military told. Us we were going somewhere. I really wouldn't care. It is as long as. When Devin and I could be together and we could take Sherman. I really wouldn't mind but if. We had a choice. That was that is where. I would struggle. Because like. I would hate to have. That responsibility here is my dog oh boy here comes okay so um yeah. Me but we would love to move out west or move back to wright-patt which is in ohio which is really close to our family. This is my life.
I really don't understand okay speaking of pets. Someone asked. How easy is it to have pets and military housing kind of nervous about the pet policy dude. I don't really understand every time. He literally like what's this it right here and I don't get. It like I said every base is different but for the last two bases. That we've been at they have a two pet maximum rule and I know a lot of people like go against. That and they'll have like extra cats and stuff like. Where housing wouldn't notice but yeah they're and they usually have breed restrictions. I have heard of bases. That don't have breed restrictions but I know a lot of them do so like pit bulls or like.
What they term as vicious breeds. You know oh and our base has a pet deposit and I'm pretty sure every base has. That but I'm not sure so. We had to pay $200 for sherman's pet deposit which is probably not going to get given back to us. Because he has damaged a few things but oh my friend Demi asked are. You involved in anything on base key spouse question mark no. I am NOT and I really have no interest in being involved in anything I don't know yeah. I don't really have an interest in that someone asked. How did I learn to deal with the military comes first mentality so. You don't really understand sorry. I gosh my hair um.
You don't really understand. What that means it's kind of like. Whenever your service member is in the military like the military always comes first. They don't care about anything else like they're still gonna deploy. You they're still gonna work. You crazy hours like. Whatever it just is what it is um and I'm not the kind of person to like dwell on things or like okay sometimes. I do but like. Most like things. That happen in my life. I accept it really quickly and I just like I'm like okay that's it this is what it is and I get over. It so like lately my husband his job has been really difficult on our relationship and I've talked about that before I'm like we're doing great and everything like. That but it's just like it's been hard.
Because he's been working a ton and he's on night shift and stuff like. That and so. It does make your relationship harder but you just have to put. More effort in and enjoy the time. That you do have together and make the most out of the time. That you can spend together we've been really focusing on spending more quality time we've been reading the five love languages military edition. I read the first. One on my own and then. We were gifted a military version. I really recommend. It it focuses on the particular struggles with people. That are in military relationships and it's really good we've liked learned a lot and we're kind of like in the fifth chapter.
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